This is a new year (guy stop giving us old news), but one thing we must realize that though the sphere of the measure of time has changed, nothing has really changed about the world (is this guy mad? So, all of those it's a new year new system talks is what?), yes nothing has changed with the world which means the price to succeed and all still remains the same.
Sometime yesterday I was drawn to a very funny caption that read are your new year resolutions still intact or one game don cut am like bet 9ja ticket? At first I laughed, then I reflected like I always do, then I thought to myself a lot of people came in with a list of things they want to change about themselves but just 14 days into this year can your answer to the question be in the affirmative or negative. If it's in the latter then this is for you.
Most times we really want the change that we seek so much that we make resolutions of them, but that's all to the resolutions. They are nothing beyond wishes and like the old adage goes, if wishes were horses men would ride.
Let me tell you a story, I'm a guy who has chosen a path that makes thing very busy for him hence some aspects of my life have to kind of lack for the other things I want to do, and one part of me that suffers most time is my relationship. I see people enjoy theirs and I always wished I could too but I sold myself the excuse (excuse puts it mild, I sold myself the lie should meet) that my lifestyle doesn't permit that.
At the dawn of the year, I made a resolution (let me say decision because I feel that's a stronger word) to enjoy my relationship and that won't spell lack of productivity, for the first 3 days I kept on wishing, you know what happened? Nothing, but after then I put work to it and I'm enjoying the experience.
So let's say you want a bigger finance in 2020, you want a car, or whatever attitudinal change that you want, it won't happen by just wishing. Like they say in economics, if the demand is not backed up by a strong will and purchasing power is nothing but non effective demand. So, you need (I chose this word, because you might get no where with your wants) a change, you make it happen by effectively working.
It's a new year, this new year new you thing won't work out if you don't put serious work to it. It's a new year indeed, but not a new world hence the price for success remains same, so the change you need won't be birthed by wish but by hard work.
Selah...